Careers… Choices or Changes..let Hypnosis help you!

A career choice is for life not just for a living!

Are you feeling tired, frustrated and overwhelmed in your career? Do you need a change to fulfil your potential? Are you getting the acknowledgement and recognition you deserve?

Hypnosis Studio offers a compehensive evaluation and assessment of skills and abilities.

Making a career choice or change is a difficult decision. Therefore it is necessary to explore all avenues of interests. It is not an a single isolated decision – it is an extension of your self concept. The kind of person you think you are is reflected in the type of career you choose.

Often careers are chosen for the wrong reasons:
*  excessive parent influence
*  group pressure
*  unrealistic expectations
*  career myths
*  lack of career guidance

Hypnosis assists in self development and management, decision making and  ways of attaining goals.

It is important to assess and evaluates ourselves in order to obtain a realistic picture of who we really are. It is necessary to recognise predominant interests, skills, abilities, values, needs and goals. Leisure interests, hobbies and social activities often indicate the type of career which would fulfil needs and senhance self concept.

A positive attitude and commitment is essential to achieve success.  Achievement is what makes us happy.

Many of us dream of doing something else for a living, but fear holds us back. Be fearless in the pursuit . You are never too old to follow your dream – you can make a career change if you really put your mind to it!

You’ve got to dream big with hypnosis as your guide!

Motivation vs Procrastination

Motivation vs Procrastination

Never put off tomorrow what you can do today!

Motivation has various areas which can be defined. The areas range ftom physiological to psychological.

We need food, drink, sleep and sex. We need to have safely and protection and to be free of fear, and we also need for structure and order. We require a sense of belonging and love. Social contact, friends and family. A positive self esteem where we are valued and respected. These aspects result in self actualisation where we can grow and fulfil our potential.

To improve motivation and success we must rid feelings of failure.  There is a need to establish goals and goals provide incentive, creating a sense of achievement.

In order to increase your motivation for success there is a need to define exactly what you want to achieve.  For example, a hypnotherapist concentrates and focuses on the individual or group in order to bring insight and personal growth and knowledge of self. It is essential to know what you really want and set realistic goals. So easy to procrastinate and leave ideas and goals till later. This causes stress and fear of failure.

Link the goal to a reward. A sense of pride and satisfaction.  Accomplishment on an intellectual, emotional or social level. Material gains. The development of innate or learned skills or knowledge.  Remember, your reward is as personal as your goal!

No success can be achieved or goal realised without a positive attitude.
Get an idea of how your attitude contributes to your success. Free yourself from previous challenges….imagine nothing can hold you back. You are confident, self assured, centered and strong!

See yourself put energy into your goal, put minor goals on hold and focus  and complete major projects.

As women we need to dicard feelings of guilt and assimilate success into our busy lives, feeling a sense of enjoyment and pride.

Every choice made and any path taken is absolutely right now. See yourself successful, with many wonderful paths to choose to enhance your life! You can and will succeed ig you believe in yourself!

Special considerations for motivation and success:

* Give yourself positive suggestions at bedtime
*  Perceive problems as opportunities
*  Exercise and eat nutritious food
*  See uourself as capable and healthy
*  Mix with friends with a positive outlook
*  Find yourself a mentor who can offer advice and moral support.

As women we are experts at multitasking and thinking of others before ourselves. Now is the time to move forward with confidence and self determination! We can succeed!

Loss & Separation

Loss and separation

Emotions associated with any type of separation reaction occur whenever your lifesyle changes significantly.  Many of us do not handle change well.  It is important to remember to confront feelings of despair to help healing. Denying or suppression of feelings will delay recovery.

There are different types of loss. Death and divorce can be devastating to an entire fanily.

Job loss threatens financial security and can result on feelings of low self esteem and loss of confidence.

Loss of a dream creating feelings of helplessness, hopelessness and frustrstion, often effecting the entire family.

Relocation maybe a better lifestyle but may cause feelings of lonliness and abandonment.

Loss of health creates fear and negativity.  The inability to live ‘normally’ and enjoy past pleasures.

Rejection causes sadness, anger and hurt being the most predominant emotions.

Often the physical reactions are imsomnia, fatigue, a change in eating patterns
Anxiety/panic attacks

There are five stages of recovety.

Learning to cope
Realisation. This may mean mood swings
Immobilisation.  A feeling of emotional paralysis
Acceptance
Letting go. Forgiveness of self and others

Hypnosis assists in finding a sense of emotional well being.  Blocked feelings such ad anger and sadness are confronted in a safe environment.
In order to move forward we learn from mistakes and fears by developing nrw life situations

It’s important to release blocks and plan a programme of recovery.  Realalizing the situation fully and accept emotions as part of the healing process.

Forgive all people that have created sadness and sorrow. Hypnosis will help you find compassion and the ability to move forward.

Release the negative feelings that keep you from recovering such as anger, sadness and guilt.

Lastly and most important feel a sense of healing. Turning the negative into a positive and proactive feeling. This becomes a reality when all feelings of sorrow are let go.

As women we are nurturers. We are carers, we feel guilt and sadness deeply.  But we are also strong and can overcome adversities and move onwards and upwards with pride and confidence.

We are winners not victims!

Confidence

Self esteem

Loss of self esteem does not suddenly occur. Self depreciation is not an accident.  It reflects a condition that is rooted in the past. The major cause is often judgmental parents, teachers or friends. it results in fear of failure, an immobilising condition and often a fear of success.

Self esteem maybe how we perceive our physical self. Society has unrealistic expectations.  Are we ‘pretty’? Are we too fat? Are we popular? If we view ourselves negatively it reflects behaviour and actions. A positive approach is self acceptance.  The acceptance of our physical self can shift focus of mental, social and emotional development. So the major goal is to improve how we see ourselves in order to develop a positive self esteem – not just for today or tomorrow, but permanently!

Specifically it is necessary to consider the following:
*  Rid past negative programming
*  improve self projection ( watch out for
Body language)
*  increase confidence and self  acceptance
*  change perspective in relation to problem solving.

Remember people are interested in who you are and your opinions.  Reflect on all the positive aspects of yourself and be proud of who are!

Hypnosis will help focus on positivity and confidence.  Give you suggestions which will assist you in changing behaviour and attitude.  Enable to perceive problems and challenges as opportunities.  Promote exercise and healthy eating.Feel capable and in control of yourself and life in general.  Encourage friends with a positive outlook.

You are a special and precious person.  Believe in yourself, for you know best, so aim for the best and live your dream!

Forgiveness

Feeling is just as important as doing..emotions grow and fester and then dictate negative behaviour. The only way to resolve these situations is to confront the feeling and act on it. So start by identifying and dealing with difficult emotions.

Learn to forgive. To forgive is to let something go, mourn and grieve the loss and be ready to move on. Forgiveness is ultimately an act of of self compassion. It’s painful but necessary to ‘ dump’ what is causing these negstive emotions.

Understand that failing is a part of being brave. We may experience disappointment but at least we tried, whatever the outcome!!

Self respect comes from accepting blame.  We have to take responsibility for our own life and actions and learn from mistakes.

No matter how hard we try, sometimes things go wrong.  We need to examine past mistakes, forgive, let go of self blame, reject any regrets ……start again!!
Reach for the stars!

Jane Pogrund

A Trance A Day

A trance a day keeps cigarettes away!

Smoking used to be ‘cool’. Today we know the dangers of nicotine and how addictive cigarette smoking is.

Have you tried to stop?  Are you a social smoker or are you an addicive smoker?
Hypnosis uses the power of the mind to control the body. However you must want to quit…..a positive attitude is a prerequisite to success.

Often we use cigarettes because we are bored, stressed, tired or just associate cigarettes with a cup of coffee or a glass of wine. Smoking becomes a habit and a habit is a learned response to a stimulus. identify the stimulus and control the response…..use distractions, develop a good support system, understand how you use cigarettes and what they do for you.

Hypnosis works particularly well. Get your mind ready to quit and you will be pleasantly surprised with the results. Remember that it’s easier to stop now because there are fewer public places you can smoke in.

You can do it! Do it now!

Call Jane in Hout Bay!

Hypno Meditation

For optimism  to be heartfelt, it needs to be rooted in experience. Making an effort to control negatively and help strengthen positivity is developing an optimistic mindset.

So how do you do it?

Most distress in daily life isn’t  created by events – it’s our interpretation.  Pessimistic thoughts turn into crisis
Break rumination- when something bad happens. Seek a healthy distraction, think straight, see the bigger picture. Avoid the downward spiral.

Enjoy the good things in life. The most positive people spend more time with people they enjoy and love.  We laugh more , smile more thus creating happy memories. It’s best just to go with the flow. Find your passion, something that absorbs you…..it can be anything. Dream about the future – having something to look forward to enhances positivity. Whatever it is, see it in great ,
Technicolor detail…..!!

Meditate, be mindful. This can really give us power over pessimism.  It creates a detachment that dissolves negative thinking. We may still have worries and doubts, but this gives us the power to let them pass.

Join a hypnomeditation session and turn the negative into a positive lifestyle!….Become the eternal optimist!